Bye Bye Bye What I Learned From NSYNC & You Should Too

In Feb of 2018, I was bullied online by friends & colleagues who I trusted and I was crushed especially because it all happened because they assumed things that were absolutely NOT true about me.
 
 
I was slut-shamed, lied about, slandered and bullied. Other "friends" denied it was even happening to me, so you can add gaslighting to that list.
 
I was really sad and then I realized---whatever! It's on them. If someone believes a lie about you and acts like that, you don't need them in your life.
It only took me 40 some odd years to understand this.
 
When that happened I was right back in high-school needing to fit in and being terrified of what would happen if I didn't immediately make it right. That is NOT healthy.
 
 
Then last fall someone I considered a really close friend decided to cut ties with me and mutual friends spent 3 months sending me messages telling me to leave certain areas of my life that I have spent 7 years...
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Genre Clarity and Why It's So Important

Happy Monday to all the writers out there who have come by my new blog. 

I'm so grateful that you are here. 

Today I am talking about GENRE CLARITY and why it's so massively important if you want to be successful as a writer. 

This isn't the same as voice, or even who you are as a writer and I'm not saying that you have to stay in one genre, but you do need clarity-especially when you are starting out. 

First I want to invite you to subscribe to my YouTube channel because this week I will have a new short video on this topic and every week I will have new videos to help all storytellers reach their dreams. 

www.youtube.com/stephaniebourbon 

So, what is genre exactly? The dictionary says this: a category of artistic composition, as in music or literature, characterized by similarities in form, style, or subject matter.

This is true but in books, movies, and television it can mean so much more. 

I once went to a conference and heard an amazing...

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Writing Goals!

Good morning writers,

Writi

I hope you are amazing!

I also hope that you are writing down your writing goals for the week ahead. I find that when I have my plans or goals written out in a list I tend to stick to them and actually make them much more than when I say, “I’ll write whatever whenever I have time.”

That’s why for me #NaNoWriMo is so great. I always get an entire novel drafted. It pushes me to stick to daily word count goals.

Here are some quick and easy tips to make those writing goals work for you so you will accomplish more and get that draft done faster.

  1. Make daily goals-this can be word count or page count or scenes, whatever you need. Write them down somewhere that you can see them.
  2. Get an accountability partner to check in with. You don’t have to check-in everyday-there are no rules but whatever you want just check-in.
  3. Make the goals fun. Maybe you meet with your partner at a coffee shop every day for an hour, maybe you chat on the...
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Welcome to my new blog

Hello friends, as many of you know I have been blogging for a super long time, but I wanted to connect my blog with my course website to bring you lots of great articles and videos just for swinging by. 

Since this one is my first on this site, it's short because I want to make sure that it's working. 

YAY 

 

If there is anything specific you want me to cover about writing, storytelling (in any medium), illustration, blogging, social media, query letters, etc..you get the idea, if you want me to blog about it, let me know! :) 

xo 

Stephanie 

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