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Happy Wednesday Writers!
How are you doing? I'm doing amazing and guess what? I have NO INTERNET THIS WEEK and it feels great.
At first I was like, "omg, what will I do without internet?" and then, I decided to embrace it. I still have my smart phone after all! LOL
This got me to thinking about how good it feels to disconnect sometimes. When I was traveling once a month to writing conferences I always loved the time up in the air away from all the noise of real life, thousands of emails coming in, social media (which I love but can also be emotionally draining), and life all around me. It's nearly impossible to not check emails or social media when on the computer. When I'm on a plane I never use the WiFi and I just relax---yup, even when it's bumpy!!
These days we can't travel, or at least we shouldn't until this virus is under control so there is no way to escape except just doing it for ourselves.
Let me tell you, it feels great. I have no idea what...
Crushing Your Query Letter Part 3!
So, honestly, I didn't even know that I was going to do a part 3 to this blog serious but as I am reviewing more and more queries for clients and writers who have taken advantage of special offers to review from being on my VIP list I can tell you that part three is NEEDED.
Have any guesses to what it is about?
This is one of the BIGGEST mishaps that writers make and I see it over and over and over again---and, I used to do this too.
Do you know?
It is---drum roll please!! When a writer queries way too soon.
I understand you've written that book or screenplay and in your head it's completely perfect because you can see it oh so clearly but usually it's not ready.
Now, I want to interject here on waiting too long too--that happens a lot too-but not quite as often.
You need to find that balance between wanting every single word to be perfect and sending out when it's just not ready.
Here are some...
OMG, what a couple of months right? F*%$!!
What is going on in the world? Is it ending?
Do we all need to channel our inner Katniss?
I seriously have never wanted to live in a Cormac McCarthy novel and I don't intend on starting now!
So...how do we stay positive and continue to write when the world is crashing down on us?
Well, I have a few tips for you!
The first one is just to FOCUS ON THE GOOD---whatever it is, focus on it, grab it, and hold on. Seriously it's so easy to get wrapped up in the chaos and devastation happening and walk down that doomsday path but rather it's best to stay focused on the good or have gratitude.
The second one is to remember why we write. You may do it just for your own pleasure and if that's the case, see above. But most of us write because we have something to say to the world. If you write for children it is your job to help them come into their own with a sense of security, hope, and understanding. This is...