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UGH, you have sent in your manuscript or query letter and this time you did everything right. You took a class on writing the perfect query, you had your first pages reviewed, you sent to beta readers and STILL---the phone pings, you know you have an email, you go to it to see that big NO staring you in the face.
Once again, you have been REJECTED!
UGH--it's part of the life of a writer, but it's still the worst!
That said, it happens to ALL OF US. Every writer has been rejected.
Every person has been rejected. Remember your first crush who didn't like you back? Rejection. Remember trying out for soccer even though you aren't athletic? Rejected. Remember sending out those college applications and getting the skinny envelope in the mail?
Rejection sucks and there is no other way to say it but you have a choice, you learn how to use it to your advantage and learn from it or you let it defeat you.
If you are still reading this, I know that you aren't...
Happy Wednesday, Writers!
Rejection sucks doesn't it? And yet, we all go through it, but so many times I see writers posting on forums, in social media groups, or clients of mine, talking about how they have no idea WHY they are getting rejected, especially after putting in so much work.
This is tricky because there are many reasons that you are getting rejected.
Let's start with ones that are out of our control.
The agent just isn't looking for what you are writing.
The reader is having a bad day (yes this happens)
Oversight-they just missed your query (yes this also happens)
The agent already has a client with work too similar to yours
Etc. etc.... but here is the thing---you can overcome these by making your story great.
Agents want to find new writers and agents want to make money so if your story is amazing, like, so amazing they can't put it down, you will get signed regardless of those things.
Now, let's talk about the...
Good morning dear writers!
You have finished the new novel that you wrote in November for National Novel Writing Month--AKA: NaNoWriMo and now what?
Many new writers go immediately to submitting query letters to agents and or tossing it up on Amazon via self-publishing. Here is why I STRONGLY suggest that you don't do that.
The biggest reason NOT to go ahead and do either of these is that your first draft of your book is not ready to be seen. Writing a novel in a month is fun and a great way to get some great writing habits established but it's not how you write a perfect draft. It just isn't.
Most first drafts are horrible, even the ones that take a year. So, if you didn't do NaNoWriMo this year but you have completed the first draft, this is also for you. As well, you screenwriters and TV writers out there with the first pass on your manuscript, the advice is the same.
You NEED to revise!
The other reason that you don't...
Hello, amazing writers!!
This week I'm skipping the blog because it's a shorter week here in the states and that means that I'm going to be busier than normal.
I will be back NEXT week with more tips for being a successful badass writer!!
Meanwhile, I have a BLACK FRIDAY special for my one-on-one coaching package that you won't want to miss out on. CLICK HERE to find out more and sign up.
You can use the package ALL year but you have to purchase it this weekend to get the special pricing.
Now, I don't believe that all writers are broke and I hate the term "starving artist" that is a belief system that I don't subscribe to but I also know the realities of living a creative life and sometimes we simply don't have as much money as we want for all the things we need, but there is always a way to find success. I created this special because I know that I can help you like I've helped many other writers.
I will cover ways to beat those limiting beliefs more...
Happy midweek WRITER WEDNESDAY!
This week I want to talk about the habits of successful writers because they do make a difference. And they are ALL things that you can start doing right now to change your writing career and take it to the next level.
1. Successful writers-WRITE. I know that sounds sarcastic and it's not meant to be, but if you want to be a writer you need to write. You need to write every day. Now, there are many who will say that you only need to write when the spirit moves you but not if you want to do this for a living and actually make money.
If you want to be a successful writer---WRITE, every single day.
2. They hone their craft. They take workshops, read books on the craft of writing, get into writing retreats with other writers, they constantly work on their craft. You don't need to spend thousands traveling far away to another country or resort to do this--although, when you can, it is fun, but it's not needed. You can read blogs...
Hello Dear Writers!
It's Wednesday and this week I'm focusing on mindset--in fact--I'm working on something pretty amazing for this spring to help you get into the mindset that IF YOU PUT YOUR MIND TO IT YOU CAN ACCOMPLISH ANYTHING!
But let's back up.
When I was 16 I saw Back to the Future. It was in the middle of the night as I worked in the movie theater and we watched the films before Friday to make sure the reels were spliced together properly--this was long before digital and theaters still had projectionists.
I went only because I was in love with this boy, Chris, with who I worked at the movie theater with. He was my everything and he wanted to go watch it so I went. I had no idea the impact it would have on my life.
In fact, it CHANGED MY LIFE forever.
Because as a creative we ALL have the thoughts that both Marty and his father shared---WHAT IF THE TELL ME I'M NO GOOD?
This is normal and sadly is why so many people...
It's writer Wednesday and I want to know how you are doing? I really do, so please message me on social media or email me and let me know how I can support you.
I feel like this is going to be a bumpy, bumpy, week.
I kept saying all week---thus far---it's like being on the airplane, once they close that door there is nothing you can do, so there is no use worrying about it----but there is and it's IMPOSSIBLE not to.
I honestly didn't write this blog ahead of time because I wasn't sure how I would feel today or how you would feel, or what would be the state of the world, but I do know this...being CREATIVE has saved my life many times over.
A personal story, I lived alone when I was 13-almost 16. ALONE--my mother left me and so it was me and my Pomeranian--by ourselves for almost 3 years. I was afraid to go into the system and I thought something was wrong with me or why would she do this? Right?
She paid the rent so luckily I...
Some days it's just too hard to do anything, especially in 2020.
Last week I hit a wall, and thus I skipped everything-including my blog which is a day late this week too. This is a big no-no in the business world but I'm only one person.
I felt guilty about it all last week, all weekend, and yesterday when I literally crashed out for 8 hours in the middle of the day.
You see, in life "shit happens" and I am one of those, like the great Cristina Yang in Grey's Anatomy who always says "I'm fine" even when I'm not. I won't bore you with the details but just apologize for being absent for these few days. I'm sorry, do you forgive me?
NOW, let's talk about the importance for creatives to take a day off!
It's important for creatives to take a day off. See, our brains work harder than normal people who don't create stories, art, etc., because no matter what we are doing there is that something in the back of our minds that is building. This...
Hello Writers, I hope your week is going well!
My day has been filled with a bit of sadness and reflection
Eddie Van Halen has died--
I've been sending out emails because I have a new course that is open for early-bird registration and I want you to write your novel so I've been in your inbox every day this week encouraging you to sign up and then yesterday after going to VOTE and drop off my ballot I heard the devastating news of Eddie Van Halen's passing.
My world was suddenly in a whirlwind of sadness and grief.
You see, I never knew Eddie personally but he affected my life in many ways.
1. He always did what he loved-MUSIC-that was it for him, he never wanted or imagined that he would do anything else.
2. His happiness doing what he loved always shined through in his performances.
3. He was genuine and authentic--he had a voice...
This month I'm going to focus on how to write a draft fast and complete NaNoWriMo, which is coming up in just a month.
Today is Sept 30th! Wow, how fast this year has flown by has been crazy, but here we are.
NOW, onto some things you can do to get ready to write your novel fast.
If you are signed up for NaNoWriMo or in any groups for that challenge, you will learn there is now a thing called "Preptober," which is for prepping your book.
This is not my style at all.
When I first starting doing NaNoWriMo, you couldn't have any more than a title on November 1st, when we started, and I'm old school, so I never know what I'm writing until that day when I sit down.
That's just me, and it is the method I'm going to teach you in my course, but you can do what makes you happy as long as you finish a novel.
The five steps that I use to prep are these.
1. Decide WHO your story is about & WHAT will happen to...